A New Template
of Connection.
For Couples
Seeking More:
AN INVITATION BENEATH THE SURFACE
Dates: Sat 14th - Sat 21st Feb, 2026
Location: South Sri Lanka
Board: 7 Nights All inclusive with Personalised Couples Support.
Group Size: Intimate – 12 Couples
Exchange: £2295pp
Throughout
My Life…
I’ve witnessed how relationships can either serve as a path to profound spiritual growth or, at times, become entangled in subtle cycles of miscommunication and unspoken expectations, subconsciously falling into cycles of blame. But I’ve also seen how, with intention and awareness, couples can deepen into a new level of sacred and sweet tenderness - my commitment to this is rooted in my lineage and practices from the highest tantric paths of Kalachakra Tantra and Vajrayana. It’s a journey of training the mind to see with compassion and move beyond the false constructs of expectation that so often lead to disappointment and pain.
Whether you’re building on a strong foundation or seeking new ways to deepen your connection, this retreat is designed to honour and support your unique journey as a couple. It’s an opportunity to celebrate your journey, explore new dimensions of love, and align with a higher purpose as partners walking this path side by side. This is an intimate retreat, and participation is limited. Applications are thoughtfully reviewed and approved upon inquiry to ensure the experience aligns with both of your journeys.
When Love Calls You Deeper
FOR COUPLES WHO HAVE GROWN DISTANT
You love one another deeply, yet something feels dimmed, the spark, the softness, the ease that once flowed between you. This retreat offers a sacred pause to reconnect, to remember how to truly see and be seen, and to listen again from the heart rather than the mind.
FOR THOSE AT CROSSROADS
You may find yourselves at a turning point, unsure which way to move, yet sensing a deeper truth trying to emerge. Here, you are invited to slow down, breathe, and meet one another from a place of honesty and compassion. Sometimes, simply being witnessed in sacred space allows clarity to unfold naturally.
FOR COUPLES IN A BEAUTIFUL CHAPTER WANTING MORE DEPTH
Everything feels good between you , yet you sense there’s more to explore, more intimacy, more presence, more truth. This retreat opens the doorway to sacred union, to honour your love not just as romance, but as a living practice of awakening.
FOR THOSE CARRYING UNSPOKEN PAIN
Perhaps something difficult has happened, a misunderstanding, a break in trust, or simply years of holding back emotion. Within this circle, you will find a safe, non-judgmental space to gently meet what has been avoided, and to begin the tender work of repair through touch, sound, prayer, and silence.
FOR COUPLES WALKING THE PATH OF AWAKENING
You’ve both been walking a spiritual path and now wish to bring that awareness into your relationship. This retreat offers sacred and tangible tools, energetic practices, and deep transmission to help you hold one another in truth, presence, and reverence, weaving love as a spiritual practice.
FOR COUPLES WHO ARE BEGINNING NEW
Perhaps you’ve journeyed through challenge, distance, or time apart, and now find yourselves ready to meet again with fresh eyes and open hearts. This retreat offers a space to soften the past, to listen beyond words, and to reawaken the sacred potential that still lives between you.
Sri Lanka
With the utmost luxury, privacy, and gentleness, this retreat provides a unique opportunity to nurture your relationship on every level—spiritually, emotionally, and energetically. For many, this experience goes far beyond what traditional approaches can offer, creating a lasting impact that feels both sacred and life-changing. It offers new template of compassion, generosity, and heart-centered connection, allowing you to experience spiritual companionship like never before. Taking pleasure in pleasuring, making room for vulnerability and truth, opening in full transparency and being held in a new level of love.
I work with couples no matter where they are in their journey. Some arrive with one partner feeling upset, angry, withdrawn, or stuck in blame. Others may feel disappointed and at their wit's end, seeing this retreat as a final chance to find clarity and gain clarity on the way forward. At the same time, some couples may come in harmony, eager to deepen their connection and explore advanced White Tantric techniques to reach new levels of intimacy and spiritual partnership, moving beyond the ordinary into something truly extraordinary. At the heart of this work is absolute compassion and a no-blame approach. This is a safe and open space to explore the deeper wounds that can manifest as blame, anger, disconnection, avoidance, or even numbness. We will work to gently untangle fears and work to reset the lens through which you see each other and some couples also experience healing on a generational level. I guide this process through a combination of discourse, energy work, shamanic journeys, sacred breathwork, sound healing, and movement. We also use medicine music, dance, and intentional pauses to help you find the words and actions that bring love into a completely new expression.
When we work as a group, all practices are done fully clothed, honouring your comfort and boundaries. In private moments, you’ll have the opportunity to experience energetic intimacy in soft candlelight, creating a sacred space for deep connection and presence with each other. I emphasise this to clarify that White Tantra is distinct from Red Tantra, as the two are often misunderstood.
How I work
with couples.
Most people subconsciously avoid THE SELF—not the ego or the identity we often think of as “me,” but the deeper, eternal self that is pure, unchanging, and always in union with THE ONE. When we truly feel this connection to the unified field of The One, we can finally feel ready to let someone else in. True intimacy—real connection—starts with “in-to-me-I-see." It’s easier to believe that the other person is the reason we feel disconnected from ourselves, but the truth is, we’ve always been longing to come home to the purity of our own heart.
This retreat is an opportunity to go on an individual shamanic journey to the deepest centre of yourself so that you can meet your partner in a completely new and authentic way. You’ll be offered techniques to connect with each other energetically and spiritually, opening your relationship to deeper levels of connection and subtle, refined sensuality. We're confident this will be a truly unique experience, unlike anything you've attended before to support and deepen your relationship.
The gifts from
this work.
Further details will be provided upon inquiry.
The Journey
Day 1 – Arrival, Cacao Ceremony & Sacred Touch
A gentle arrival into the field of connection. We begin with warm introductions, a shared meal, and the soft opening of hearts through cacao and sacred touch — an invitation to land fully in your body and the circle.
Day 2 – The Path of Union: Sisters & Brothers
A day to honour the feminine and masculine within and around us. Separate circles allow each group to drop deep into authentic presence and expression before joining together for discourse, practice and Q&A.
Day 3 – Deepening the Heart
A morning of sharing and gentle integration, followed by time to rest, reflect, and prepare for a profound afternoon immersion held in the spirit of Mother Earth and sacred connection.
Day 4 – Integration, Rest & White Tantra Sound Journey
A day of restoration and sound healing, allowing the body and spirit to integrate. In the evening, we gather for a White Tantra Sound Journey and a beautiful Couples’ Rose Blessing.
Day 5 – Elemental Ceremony & Fire Blessing
A sacred day connect with ancient wisdom and offering gratitude through prayer, music, celebration, breath and fire. This ceremonial space invites clarity, release, and renewal in the heart.
Day 6 – Morning Intimacy & Sea Journey
We begin with gentle intimacy practices before venturing into the sea — a journey of play, surrender, and freedom. The day opens space for snorkelling, exploration, and connection with nature’s vastness.
Day 7 – Closing & Celebration
A day of integration, sharing, and joyful embodiment. We gather for movement, water practice, and a closing celebration of all that has been received and shared.
Day 8 – Departure
After a nourishing breakfast, we close our time together.
What to
expect?
This retreat invites honesty, presence, and a willingness to look within. It’s not a space for quick fixes or surface-level repair, but a deep and loving journey into the heart of relationship. We welcome couples who feel ready to engage with the practices, to listen deeply, and to meet what arises with compassion. You don’t need to have experience in spiritual work, only an openness to growth and a sincere desire to reconnect.
If you’re currently moving through a period of challenge, separation, or emotional instability, please reach out. As part of the enquiry process, we will arrange a personal call to connect and learn more about your relationship. This is an opportunity to ask questions, receive guidance, and for Rita to share how this retreat may best support you both at this stage of your journey. This retreat holds profound depth, and it’s important that both partners feel safe and emotionally prepared to participate fully.
What is White
Tantra?
White Tantra is the practice of awakening to your innate divine sacred sexual healing energy through purity, presence, and awareness.
It is not about trying to get to a place with your sexual expression, rather, it is about refining energy into the deepest heart connection internally, and then sharing this with generosity, so that the nectar of love, truth, and consciousness can move more between you and your partner.
In these practices, in a very natural and uncontrived way you will be invited in privacy and candle light to work with the subtle currents of energy that flow through the body, using breath, occasionally eye contact, sacred geometry, presence, mantra, and movement to open the heart and deepen your Etheric connection. It’s a process of balancing the masculine and feminine energies within each person and within the relationship itself.
White Tantra invites us to meet one another beyond personality and old stories and open a connection that is truly soul to soul.
It is a meditation in partnership, helping you as a couples to remember the sacred essence of union, where love becomes both teacher and path. This opens you into a profound level of truth and a very heightened sacred intimacy and oneness, feeling an atomic merging and melting beyond the mind, this is the yearning of humanity.
FAQ
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This retreat is for couples at any stage of their relationship. Whether you’re feeling disconnected or stuck in patterns, or simply want to deepen your already strong connection, this retreat is designed to support you in growing and evolving together.
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On this retreat, we will work in 3 meditation ceremonies, but as you can see, much of the experience is centered around holding space, in-depth discourse and guidance, subtle yet profound practices.
What makes this retreat so unique is its immersive nature and the opportunity to explore deep emotional and relational layers in a way that weekly therapy sessions often cannot achieve.Unlike traditional couples therapy, where progress can take months due to shorter, sporadic sessions, this retreat allows for continuous and focused time together. Over the course of several days, we create a sacred container that enables a deep unraveling of blocks, patterns, and fears, while offering tools to build new pathways of connection and understanding. Rita brings over 20 years of experience working with couples in ways that are both compassionate and transformative.
With the utmost luxury, privacy, and gentleness, this retreat provides a unique opportunity to nurture your relationship on every level—spiritually, emotionally, and energetically. For many, this experience goes far beyond what traditional approaches can offer, creating a lasting impact that feels both sacred and life-changing.
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No prior experience is necessary. The teachings are shared in an accessible way, and everything is guided step-by-step. All that’s needed is your willingness to show up with openness and presence.
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White Tantra is a sacred practice that works with your natural energy to cultivate deeper intimacy and connection. It’s not focused on physical sexual techniques but rather on energetically aligning with your partner in a way that is healing, transformative, and deeply fulfilling.
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While the retreat incorporates sacred sexuality teachings, it’s not focused on physical sexual pleasure or techniques. Instead, it explores deeper energetic connections that can transform how you experience intimacy with your partner.
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Yes, travel to the venue and transfers are your responsibility. However, the resort can assist with arranging transfers from the local airport and Scoo is on hand to talk to you at depth about anything you need.
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Yes, the schedule includes downtime for reflection, relaxation, and connecting with your partner.
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Comfortable summer clothing for the day, swimwear for leisure time, a journal, and any personal items you’ll need for the week. A detailed packing list will be shared closer to the retreat date.