A New Template of Connection

In the Heart Chakra of the World

For Couples
Seeking More.

Dates: November 6th - 8th, 2026

Board: 2 Night Retreat with Personalised Couples Support.

Location: Glastonbury

Group Size: Intimate – 10 Couples (4 Couples Spaces avaialble)

Exchange: £950pp

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AN INVITATION BENEATH THE SURFACE

The Journey

Most people subconsciously avoid THE SELF, not the ego or the identity we often think of as “me,” but the deeper, eternal self that is pure, unchanging, and always in union with THE ONE. When we truly feel this connection to the unified field of The One, we can finally feel ready to let someone else in. True intimacy, real connection starts with “in-to-me-I-see." It’s easier to believe that the other person is the reason we feel disconnected from ourselves, but the truth is, we’ve always been longing to come home to the purity of our own heart. This retreat is an opportunity to go on an individual shamanic journey to the deepest centre of yourself so that you can meet your partner in a completely new and authentic way.

You’ll be offered techniques to connect with each other energetically and spiritually, opening your relationship to deeper levels of connection and subtle, refined sensuality. We're confident this will be a truly unique experience, unlike anything you've attended before to support and deepen your relationship.

  • "We arrived at Rita’s Couples Retreat with twenty years of history together. We were in a place of painful separation, feeling blocked from one another and with no sexual intimacy for almost a year. Over two days, Rita guided us through the most exquisite journey of remembering and reconnecting. Rita holds such a vast understanding of the masculine and feminine principles. Both the archetypal energies of Shiva and Shakti and the very human reality of being a man and a woman navigating a relationship. I felt deeply seen and honoured in my experience as a woman and my partner in his experience as a man. Rita holds space for both with such reverence, helping us understand ourselves more deeply while also opening our hearts to the experience of the other."

    Private Couples Retreat - September 2026

  • "The guided practices were subtle yet so profound. We slowed down. Softened into our senses, sensuality of our bodies and hearts. Began to lay down the stories we had been carrying about one another. Beneath the years, the overfamiliarity, the hurts and the resentments, we were invited to meet one another soul to soul. Through the eyes of the heart. We moved through tenderness and tears. Joyous laughter. Play. Vulnerability. Energetic play. And moments of the most extraordinary melted bliss states together. After so long living separately in our own worlds, to find ourselves in harmony again felt incredible. To appreciate the purity of one another’s essence."

    Private Couples Retreat - September 2026

  • "Rita held us with such sensitivity, wisdom and an enormous generosity of heart. She guided us towards places within ourselves and one another that had felt impossible to reach. After more than twenty years together, it feels as though much of the distortion and blocks between us have cleared. Two weeks on, I can say with full embodied clarity that we have entered into a new relationship together. We have met one another again anew."

    Private Couples Retreat - September 2026

  • "Yesterday we made love for hours in a way I think we have both always yearned for, but had never been able to find our way into together. For the first time in our relationship, I met and opened myself to my partner, fully in his God, his Shiva, his Yeshua consciousness. There was no trying to get anywhere. Just this extraordinary meeting of one another as God and Goddess and a flowering from there that felt sublime. Lovemaking as prayer. We have been very close to parting ways over these past few years. So to find ourselves here, after twenty years together, experiencing this depth of love and intimacy feels nothing short of miraculous."

    Private Couples Retreat - September 2026

Throughout
My Life…

I’ve witnessed how relationships can either serve as a path to profound spiritual growth or, at times, become entangled in subtle cycles of miscommunication and unspoken expectations, subconsciously falling into cycles of blame. But I’ve also seen how, with intention and awareness, couples can deepen into a new level of sacred and sweet tenderness - my commitment to this is rooted in my lineage and practices from the highest tantric paths of Kalachakra Tantra and Vajrayana. It’s a journey of training the mind to see with compassion and move beyond the false constructs of expectation that so often lead to disappointment and pain.

Whether you’re building on a strong foundation or seeking new ways to deepen your connection, this retreat is designed to honour and support your unique journey as a couple. It’s an opportunity to celebrate your journey, explore new dimensions of love, and align with a higher purpose as partners walking this path side by side. This is an intimate retreat, and participation is limited. Applications are thoughtfully reviewed and approved upon inquiry to ensure the experience aligns with both of your journeys.

Opening to Love Beyond Form and Time.

When Love Calls You Deeper

FOR COUPLES WHO HAVE
GROWN DISTANT

You love one another deeply, yet something feels dimmed, the spark, the softness, the ease that once flowed between you. This retreat offers a sacred pause to reconnect, to remember how to truly see and be seen, and to listen again from the heart rather than the mind.

FOR THOSE AT A
CROSSROADS

You may find yourselves at a turning point, unsure which way to move, yet sensing a deeper truth trying to emerge. Here, you are invited to slow down, breathe, and meet one another from a place of honesty and compassion. Sometimes, simply being witnessed in sacred space allows clarity to unfold naturally.

FOR COUPLES IN A BEAUTIFUL CHAPTER WANTING MORE DEPTH

Everything feels good between you , yet you sense there’s more to explore, more intimacy, more presence, more truth. This retreat opens the doorway to sacred union, to honour your love not just as romance, but as a living practice of awakening.

FOR THOSE CARRYING
UNSPOKEN PAIN

Perhaps something difficult has happened, a misunderstanding, a break in trust, or simply years of holding back emotion. Within this circle, you will find a safe, non-judgmental space to gently meet what has been avoided, and to begin the tender work of repair through touch, sound, prayer, and silence.

FOR COUPLES WALKING THE PATH OF AWAKENING

You’ve both been walking a spiritual path and now wish to bring that awareness into your relationship. This retreat offers sacred and tangible tools, energetic practices, and deep transmission to help you hold one another in truth, presence, and reverence, weaving love as a spiritual practice.

FOR COUPLES WHO ARE
BEGINNING A NEW

Perhaps you’ve journeyed through challenge, distance, or time apart, and now find yourselves ready to meet again with fresh eyes and open hearts. This retreat offers a space to soften the past, to listen beyond words, and to reawaken the sacred potential that still lives between you.

Sacred Isle of Avalon

  • Deepening in Union

    An invitation to meet one another with honesty, care, and presence.

  • The Beauty Way

    A path of harmlessness, integrity, and transparency.

  • Beyond the Veils

    A space to see more clearly what is true, beneath the stories and roles.

  • The Way of Love

    Your relationship as a Spiritual Practical.

  • Held In Truth

    A space where everything is met with compassion.

With the utmost care, privacy, and gentleness, this retreat provides a unique opportunity to nurture your relationship on every level, spiritually, emotionally, and energetically. For many, this experience goes far beyond what traditional approaches can offer, creating a lasting impact that feels both sacred and life-changing. It offers new template of compassion, generosity, and heart-centered connection, allowing you to experience spiritual companionship like never before. Taking pleasure in pleasuring, making room for vulnerability and truth, opening in full transparency and being held in a new level of love.


I work with couples no matter where they are in their journey. Some arrive with one partner feeling upset, angry, withdrawn, or stuck in blame. Others may feel disappointed and at their wit's end, seeing this retreat as a final chance to find clarity and gain clarity on the way forward. At the same time, some couples may come in harmony, eager to deepen their connection and explore advanced White Tantric techniques to reach new levels of intimacy and spiritual partnership, moving beyond the ordinary into something truly extraordinary. At the heart of this work is absolute compassion and a no-blame approach. This is a safe and open space to explore the deeper wounds that can manifest as blame, anger, disconnection, avoidance, or even numbness.

We will work to gently untangle fears and work to reset the lens through which you see each other and some couples also experience healing on a generational level. I guide this process through a combination of discourse, energy work, shamanic journeys, sacred breathwork, sound healing, and movement. We also use medicine music, dance, and intentional pauses to help you find the words and actions that bring love into a completely new expression.

When we work as a group, all practices are done fully clothed, honouring your comfort and boundaries. In private moments, you’ll have the opportunity to experience energetic intimacy in soft candlelight, creating a sacred space for deep connection and presence with each other. I emphasise this to clarify that White Tantra is distinct from Red Tantra, as the two are often misunderstood.

How I work
with couples.

Schedule

1.30pm: Arrival, retreat begins 3pm
2pm: Opening and Discourse
4pm: Couples Practice
5pm: Cacao & Blue Lotus Ceremony (with sacred sound, Light Body Activation, and Medicine Music)
9pm: Evening Meal

Friday 6th Nov

9am: Breakfast
10.30am: Discourse + Couples Practice
1pm: Lunch
7pm: Sacred Evening Ceremony

Saturday 7th Nov

9.30am: Breakfast
10.30am: Integration
1.30pm: Lunch
1.30pm: Discourse & Practice
4pm: Closing of Retreat

Sunday 8th Nov

What to expect?

This retreat invites honesty, presence, and a willingness to look within. It’s not a space for quick fixes or surface-level repair, but a deep and loving journey into the heart of relationship. We welcome couples who feel ready to engage with the practices, to listen deeply, and to meet what arises with compassion. You don’t need to have experience in spiritual work,  only an openness to growth and a sincere desire to reconnect.

If you’re currently moving through a period of challenge, separation, or emotional instability, please reach out. As part of the enquiry process, we will arrange a personal call to connect and learn more about your relationship. This is an opportunity to ask questions, receive guidance, and for Rita to share how this retreat may best support you both at this stage of your journey. This retreat holds profound depth, and it’s important that both partners feel safe and emotionally prepared to participate fully.

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What is White Tantra?

White Tantra is the practice of awakening to your innate divine sacred sexual healing energy through purity, presence, and awareness. It is not about trying to get to a place with your sexual expression, rather, it is about refining energy into the deepest heart connection internally, and then sharing this with generosity, so that the nectar of love, truth, and consciousness can move more between you and your partner.

In these practices, in a very natural and uncontrived way you will be invited in privacy and candle light to work with the subtle currents of energy that flow through the body, using breath, occasionally eye contact, sacred geometry, presence, mantra, and movement to open the heart and deepen your Etheric connection. It’s a process of balancing the masculine and feminine energies within each person and within the relationship itself.

White Tantra invites us to meet one another beyond personality and old stories and open a connection that is truly soul to soul. It is a meditation in partnership, helping you as a couples to remember the sacred essence of union, where love becomes both teacher and path. This opens you into a profound level of truth and a very heightened sacred intimacy and oneness, feeling an atomic merging and melting beyond the mind, this is the yearning of humanity.

  • “My experience on the conscious couples retreat was nothing short of life changing. I went in hoping to deepen my spiritual connection to my partner and what transpired was so much more than I could have hoped. The most powerful part for me was the feeling of safety provided not only by Rita and the team but by my partner as well. Having the space to meet ourselves first, so that we could then show up for each other in a pure way, resonated so deeply. The meditations and workshops offered gave us a profound chance to practice this presence and openness in our relating.”

  • "Sending love your way—thank you for bringing us together in such a beautiful celebration. You are dear to my heart, and I admire how your love and creativity ripple outward, touching lives far beyond time and space. Your unique gatherings transport us to a Shambala here on earth, where the boundless love felt is truly transformative. May that love amplify through each of our hearts and return to you multifold, bringing healing and manifesting all your heart dreams of.

  • "The retreat was truly transformative. After years of feeling stuck in both my career and relationship, the experience helped me uncover what I truly needed to grow. It deepened the bond with my partner, helping us communicate more openly and rekindle our connection. Personally, it reignited my passion for work, and I now approach my career with a sense of purpose and alignment. This retreat has not only strengthened our relationship but also inspired me to help others discover the same healing and growth we experienced together."

  • "In February 2024, my husband and I attended Rita’s couples retreat in Sri Lanka. Having worked with Rita for over three years, I can truly say her wisdom, teachings, and retreats have been life-changing. Rita and her team create a sacred space for deep healing, marked by immense care and attention to detail. The ceremonies, workshops, and interactions with other couples opened our eyes to new possibilities and brought profound insights. We are now walking a new path together, thanks to the transformative experience. Thank you, Rita, for holding us with such care and love."

  • "The most profound, in-depth, and truly life-changing retreat I’ve ever attended—thank you for helping us realign with ourselves and each other."

  • “Another aspect that was truly so beautiful was being able to meet and connect with other couples from all over the world, it was amazing to see the unique expression of everyone’s love. Whether you are struggling within your relationship or even just looking to deepen your connection, I can’t recommend this retreat enough - I can’t wait for the next one!”

FAQ

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  • This retreat is for couples at any stage of their relationship. Whether you’re feeling disconnected or stuck in patterns, or simply want to deepen your already strong connection, this retreat is designed to support you in growing and evolving together.

  • On this retreat, we will work in 2 sacred ceremonies, but as you can see, much of the experience is centered around holding space, in-depth discourse and guidance, subtle yet profound practices.

    What makes this retreat so unique is its immersive nature and the opportunity to explore deep emotional and relational layers in a way that weekly therapy sessions often cannot achieve.

    Unlike traditional couples therapy, where progress can take months due to shorter, sporadic sessions, this retreat allows for continuous and focused time together. Over the course of several days, we create a sacred container that enables a deep unraveling of blocks, patterns, and fears, while offering tools to build new pathways of connection and understanding. Rita brings over 20 years of experience working with couples in ways that are both compassionate and transformative.

    With the utmost luxury, privacy, and gentleness, this retreat provides a unique opportunity to nurture your relationship on every level—spiritually, emotionally, and energetically. For many, this experience goes far beyond what traditional approaches can offer, creating a lasting impact that feels both sacred and life-changing.

  • No prior experience is necessary. The teachings are shared in an accessible way, and everything is guided step-by-step. All that’s needed is your willingness to show up with openness and presence.

  • White Tantra is a sacred practice that works with your natural energy to cultivate deeper intimacy and connection. It’s not focused on physical sexual techniques but rather on energetically aligning with your partner in a way that is healing, transformative, and deeply fulfilling.

  • While the retreat incorporates sacred sexuality teachings, it’s not focused on physical sexual pleasure or techniques. Instead, it explores deeper energetic connections that can transform how you experience intimacy with your partner.

  • Yes, the schedule includes downtime for reflection, relaxation, and connecting with your partner.